“I realised a long time ago that the harder I resist and fight against my destiny, the more I am fighting a losing battle. Yes, you do create your own destiny but to an extent only, and when you start to see the difference between the two, everything changes.“JayysNotes
Personal Context – There’s somewhere I’m meant to be. Someone I’m meant to be with. I think about this all the time. The more I think about it, the more I think I am ready.
“For my father, and now me, the essence of a good work ethic starts with meeting a challenge of self-discovery, of finding something you love to do, so that work — even, or especially, when it’s very difficult and arduous — becomes joyful. Maybe even sacred,””Warren Buffet
Personal Context – I love this quote because it was only a few years ago that I discovered this on my own whilst I was at my lowest point in life. I remember back then, how lost I was not knowing where I fit in, in this great big world. I remember just walking through life as if it all had no meaning at all, that it was some sick joke played on us, puppets in a never ending show.
And then it was all suddenly so clear, so blaringly obvious even; that the only thing worth pursuing in this lifetime was forever growth and self-discovery. To find the love of my life, not in someone else but within myself above all else.
Since then, my path has been more true than it’s 23 years before it, it has been more clear than it ever has. The realisation that life is not some sick joke, that it is absolutely and wonderfully precious and that it works for you if only you let it.
“Mondays are absolutely key to any individuals success. An energetic start to the day fueled by the reaping joys of the weekend and a really really good nights rest sets the tone not only for the rest of the day, but for the week that comes.
A Monday spent worthwhile gets you ahead of the game. Before most have even figured out what their week looks like, you’re already looking ahead to the next.”JayysNotes
Personal Context – I sit here at the end of one of my favourite days, Mondays. Looking back throughout the day, I feel a sense of achievement. I’ve completed the equivalent of a weeks work in one sitting. A long sitting no doubt but I’ve done it and now that I have, the week feels open to me. Open to spending time on what really matters, on ideas that never should be overlooked at a glance, when you’re too busy to really pause and see. Having a good Monday to me means to have an even better week. It is because of this I have my Sunday ME days, to wind down, get an exceptional quality of sleep and relax before the storm in which is myself!
“Use your position as leverage for the positive change you want to see. Aim to be the greatest not for yourself, but for all those who need you to be; and for all those who never had the opportunity”JayysNotes
Personal Context – This quote came about as the year 2020 closes, a year where a large bit of my free time was taken up by activities relating to the chairing of the young professionals committee at my company. Looking back, there were many a great achievements, mistakes and hurdles that I had to overcome but it has to be one of the most eye opening things I’d ever done. Being in a position of respective power allowed me to push agenda’s which really made a difference, but more importantly, it allowed for conversations with people and organisations in which I would never have made bringing me up through the company’s structure and back down.
For 2021, I was voted in to become YP chair of an even more prominent organisation, the Institute of Engineering & Technology. So it makes me think, how far can I take this? How far can I use my title, my position to drive the values and beliefs that I truly believe in that with positively change the lives of others?
“I’ve always believed that your parents want the best for you, but at the same time, they don’t always know what that is. As much heartache as it may cause, it’s about standing up for your beliefs, who you are and what you want in life, instead of just being what they would like you to be. They will, in time see that you are your own person, that you have and always will honestly and wholeheartedly take in consideration the advice they give; but ultimately make your own path In life. When they see this, and it will take time, they will not only be proud of who you have become (a strong, independent individual), but you will also have grown to be someone you are proud of, incorporating some of your parents greatest strengths and teachings along with your very own and where your heart lies.”Jason Li
Feature image – Graduation Day. The University of Technology, Sydney, Australia. Taken on the 9th of May 2017